(Listening Ear) ...This is primarily because women are creature of the ear (auditory beings). Communication is the blood of all relationships (as I keep on drumming). No woman will ever be fed up with getting a man who would give her undivided attention, and look into her face and eys lovingly and intently, with an honest heart that patiently listens to everythign flowing from the lips of the woman.
If a man is mean to his lover, and the woman comes across a man who will sincerely make time to listen to her, and comfort her, then love can develop between the two people that could be romantically and s*xually explosive and disastrous. That is why people's wives have frequently fallen victims to men who would listen to them sympathetically and lovingly---- even ministers, counselors, and married men without wisdom and self-control, have sometimes fallen into disgraceful adultery in this regard! Both men and women in distress need to watch out!
Men must learn, not to only listen to the voice of women, but listen to their hearts as well (sense the spirit behind their words); then they can speak, act, and behave with the best response that will promote love, understanding, and intimacy in the marriage or romantic relationships. Any man who respects the rights, views, and opinions of a woman, and makes time to listen to what she has to say, will be greatly loved by that woman. If a husband will not make time and show respect to his wife by looking at her face and listen to her conversations and important things that she wants to tell her lover, and give her good responses, then they cannot grow together in their romatic relationship.
Women are creatures of the ear (auditory) and are highly attracted by words. Females therefore crave to get attention for their words opinions, and genuine complaints. I have noticed that in counseling, the majority of women (who usually come for help in their relationships instead of the men) do not just come for solutions to their problems, but seek for a compassionate person with the caring heart to listen to them, and hear their story. If you have listening ear for a woman, and top it up with expressions of concern and comfort, you give that woman a real balm to heal her heart and mind to a large extent. Ify you are spiritual enough to add appropriate scripture, and engage the lady in prayer to the Lord, then the deal is sealed.
The truth is that too many women have been denied hearing in many societies, especially in cultures where the woman is expected to be silent and just follow the man who is the champion of the entire show in a marriage or romantic relationship, and even in the community. This creating more yearning and demand in women to be listened to and clearly heard by their male partners.
Next (Understanding ) ....
http://books.google.ca/books?id=F69YsecsML... Dr. Samuel Kisseadoo.... Check out the book if you like it online or at your local book store!!
Posted By: Jen Fad
Friday, May 18th 2012 at 11:38AM
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